The survey said that the talented and talented women are still the mainstream concept of China’s mate selection

“Lang Cai (wealth) woman appearance” and “door to door” are the standards for the selection of our parents’ ancestors. Is there any change in the standards for young people to find a partner? Yesterday, the “China Social Psychology Research Report (2012-2013)” was released. The survey found that “Langcai (financial) woman appearance” and “door to door” are still the basic principles for contemporary Chinese young people to find a lover.

How many young people come together because of love? More young people want to choose their own spouse equal to or more than their own income, education, age, height, and love is no longer impulsive romance, replaced by the reality of reason.

What is the view of the young people of foreign countries choosing their own spouse? According to Huang Xueqing, the Japanese observer of the Global Chinese Broadcasting Network, many changes have taken place in young people's concept of mate selection in these years:

Huang Xueqing: For example, there is a 28-year-old boy. Although he does not have a high degree, he has a stable job in a small and medium-sized enterprise. His appearance is also good. The annual income is 3 million yen, which is more than 200,000 yuan, but he is in the marriage agency. More than 200 women refused to meet. In the bubble economy of Japan, the condition was like he was. Nobody could find the object. At the time, everyone’s income was in a rising stage. There were 3 million in their 20s and 5 million in their 30s. However, under the current economic situation, it is difficult to guarantee that women will pay more attention to the current conditions. Many wedding companies have made large numbers of members with an annual income of 6 million yen or more. Academic qualifications are not so high. In the past few years, more women are working at the same time. Because the economic conditions of men are unstable, women's income can share the family's economic pressure. Therefore, the selection criteria for men are loosened from one aspect.

South Dawn, a South Korean observer of the Global Chinese Broadcasting Network, said: The employment rate of South Korean women is significantly lower than that of men, so women’s economic conditions and family background for men are higher:

Nan Liming: In fact, the stronger-minded class is still the upper class society in South Korea because for upper-class families, only the right marriage can help maintain their property and develop the strength of their family, so in the upper class There are dedicated matchmakers in the circles to help them find suitable objects. For example, the daughter of the president married the son of a large business owner. There are many such things in large companies. Of course, this is a small part of the special class of Korean society. Phenomenon, most ordinary people are still more open to this kind of thing. They prefer objects whose family environment is not much different from each other. They think that this will have more common language. It is also a burden to feel too wealthy, according to last year. The survey said that the Korean women like to marry the man's occupation as a civil servant, while the men like marriage as the woman's career as a teacher.

In many people's minds, Westerners do not have much demand for "door-to-door". However, in the United Kingdom where the concept of aristocracy still exists, families with aristocratic descent do not demand much. Hou Ying, British observer of Global Chinese Broadcasting Network:

Hou Ying: A UK survey showed that the perfect girlfriend in the eyes of the British guys should be healthy and beautiful. Most of the respondents hope that their girlfriends like sports and can take care of their own bodies, and 88% of the survey respondents said they don’t like their girlfriends. Because they do not wait for hours to wait, they hope that their girlfriend can complete dressing in a matter of minutes. In addition, 60% of respondents prefer that their girlfriends prefer to watch football matches in bars instead of watching soap operas at home. As far as the 65% of respondents in the diet think that ideal girlfriends should like sweets, young men hope that their girlfriends It is more practical for ordinary people to cook more at home and less to order takeaways. However, in Europe, especially in the United Kingdom, there is a special kind of crowd that is the royal family. Because of the influence of the status of the royal family, they are in the aspect of mate selection. Has attracted widespread attention throughout the country and the world, the royal family for the heir's mate selection criteria are usually more stringent, the other party is also able to have a more noble origin and family, but there are always some members of the royal family is not behave, therefore not only the United Kingdom, Europe In other countries there have also been more and more civilian kings.

In Australia in the southern hemisphere, the concept of a good match has to be reduced. Hu Fang, an observer of the Global Chinese Broadcasting Network in Australia, said that more than 200 years ago, the first immigrants of Australia were mostly British prisoners. Someone joked that, on this basis, Who else can not look down on:

Hu Fang: An Australian girl met a simple young Chinese farmer while traveling in the Tiger Leaping Gorge in Yunnan, China. The girl stayed in China and the young man was observing herself, and at the 2000 Sydney Olympics. During the Danish prince married a Australian civilian girl in a bar on the streets of Sydney, and finally they both entered the marriage hall in 2004. This is the Australian, their concept of the concept of the door, the level of the concept is very Indifferent, the other half of the marriage or farming, money or money does not matter, as long as two people really love it is everything. This may be related to the ethnic nature hidden in the blood of Australians. It was the prisoners who had been exiled in Britain since the early pioneering of Australia more than 200 years ago. After that, some European immigrants were basically urban civilians, and now Australians. It is often proud to be a descendant of a prisoner, so as to flaunt his natural rough personality, and therefore his ancestors are half a dozen, no one is a nobleman and no one has the bloodline of the royal family, coupled with the Australian blue-collar and white-collar earn All of them are similar, and the gap between the rich and the poor is not obvious. Therefore, there is no need for these external considerations to fall in love.

Some people say that love and marriage are two things, the times are changing, society is changing, and values ​​are changing. All changes naturally affect our needs and choices for real life. Wang Jian, an observer of Voice of China, said: Today's young people are too sensible to treat love:

Wang Jian: Nowadays, young people’s mate’s choice is sometimes unavoidable. It feels somewhat different from young people. Young people are generally more impulsive and irrational, but now young people sometimes choose to have a mate. Sometimes we feel oversmart and love quits. And secondly, Meng Danghu recently heard this word in “If You Are the One”. When talking about Wenzhou, he said that when the two young people join hands, they must consider the cause of the two companies. What is more appropriate for the two companies? For a while, we have investigated some people who are uncles and uncles. 85% of them like uncles. They like to have an economic foundation, mature minds, and what position of love can we put love back to the core position. People's marriage becomes a hall of affection, not Rational planning space.

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